Pastor
The person who leads a church. The title depends on the tradition: Catholics, Orthodox, and Anglicans have priests; most Protestants have pastors or ministers; "Reverend" is a formal title for any of them.
What they actually mean
“"The person in charge of the church. What you call them tells you what kind of church it is."”
Heard in the wild
“You should talk to Pastor Mike about that.”
“Father Tom is hearing confessions until noon.”
The Lighter Side
The only professional who works one day a week, according to everyone who has never been a pastor.
The longer version
What it means
Every church has someone who leads it — preaches, teaches, oversees worship, cares for people in crisis, and, in most traditions, presides at baptisms, weddings, funerals, and communion. What that person is called depends almost entirely on the tradition.
Pastor (Latin for "shepherd") is the everyday word in Baptist, Lutheran, Pentecostal, and evangelical churches; a large church may have a senior or lead pastor and several associate pastors (youth, worship, care). Minister is older Protestant usage, common among Presbyterians and Methodists. Priest is the Catholic, Orthodox, and Anglican word, and reflects a different understanding of the role — a priest presides at the sacraments in Christ's person; Catholics and Orthodox address priests as "Father." Anglicans also use rector (the priest in charge of a parish) and vicar. Reverend is a title of address, usually written ("the Rev. Jane Smith"), not a job. Preacher is Southern and Black church usage for a pastor, especially one gifted at preaching.
Why people say it
Christians believe the church needs shepherds — Jesus told Peter to "feed My sheep," and Paul lists pastors among Christ's gifts to the church. The different titles carry different theologies of what the shepherd does: a priest offers sacrifice and administers sacraments; a pastor preaches and shepherds; a minister serves. But every tradition agrees on the core: someone is responsible for the flock.
How to respond
If you don't know what to call the leader of a church, "Pastor" is safe in any Protestant church and "Father" in any Catholic or Orthodox one; if in doubt, ask — clergy are used to it. Most pastors are approachable and expect visitors to come with questions. If a friend says "my pastor said…," they're citing an authority they trust, roughly the way you'd cite a doctor.
If you hear it in different churches
Catholic: priest, addressed "Father," celibate (in the Latin rite), male. Orthodox: priest, "Father," may be married before ordination, male. Anglican/Episcopal: priest, rector, vicar, "Father" or "Mother" or first name, may be married, men and women. Lutheran, Methodist, Presbyterian: pastor or minister, "Pastor" or "Rev.," married or not, men and women in most bodies. Baptist, Pentecostal, evangelical: pastor, "Pastor" or "Brother," usually married, mostly men in conservative bodies and both in others.
Where does “Pastor” come from?
Jesus called Himself the Good Shepherd (John 10) and commissioned Peter to "feed My sheep." Paul lists "pastors and teachers" in Ephesians 4:11 (the only place the word "pastor" appears in most English Bibles) and sets qualifications for "overseers" in 1 Timothy 3. The threefold order of bishop, priest, and deacon was in place by the 100s. "Priest" comes from the Greek presbyteros (elder) through Old English; the Reformation's rejection of a sacrificing priesthood led Protestants to prefer "minister" and "pastor." "Reverend" as a title dates to the 1400s and became standard for Protestant clergy in the 1600s.
Good to know
A quick guide: "Pastor" (Baptist, Lutheran, Pentecostal, evangelical), "Minister" (Presbyterian, Methodist, older Protestant), "Priest" or "Father" (Catholic, Orthodox, Anglican), "Rector" or "Vicar" (Anglican/Episcopal), "Reverend" (a written title, like Dr., used for any Protestant clergy). Using the wrong one is a small, forgivable error. Many pastors would rather you use their first name anyway.
You might also hear
Sermon
Church Life & ServicesThe talk the pastor or priest gives in a service, usually explaining and applying a Bible passage. "Homily" is the Catholic and Orthodox term and tends to be shorter; "message" is the modern evangelical one.
“"The preacher's talk. Length varies by tradition; the Baptist one is longer."”
Elder
Church Life & ServicesChurch leadership roles from the New Testament. Elders typically oversee teaching and direction; deacons typically oversee practical care and service. The exact meaning varies widely by denomination.
“"The church's leadership team — elders for direction, deacons for hands-on service. Roughly."”
Ordination
Ministry & LeadershipThe ceremony that formally makes someone a minister, pastor, priest, or deacon — with prayer and the laying on of hands, after the church has examined and approved them.
“"Officially becoming clergy. There's a ceremony; there's usually a lot of hands on your head."”
Youth Pastor
Youth Group & CampThe adult on a church's staff in charge of the teen ministry — planning youth group, camps, and trips, teaching, and being a trusted adult to a lot of teenagers.
“"The grown-up who runs the church's teen program. Beard optional but likely."”
Common questions
What's the difference between a pastor and a priest?+
Mostly tradition. Protestants say "pastor" and emphasize preaching and shepherding; Catholics, Orthodox, and Anglicans say "priest" and emphasize the sacraments. Both lead a congregation.
What do I call a pastor?+
"Pastor" plus first or last name works in any Protestant church; "Father" in Catholic and Orthodox churches; "Reverend" is mostly written. When unsure, ask — they won't mind.
Can women be pastors?+
Depends on the tradition. Most mainline Protestant bodies, many Pentecostal churches, and Anglicans ordain women; Catholics, Orthodox, Southern Baptists, and many conservative evangelical churches don't. It's a live debate in some places.
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Written by Rev. Christopher D.F. Warrington, Ordained Minister, M.Div. · Updated September 2026
This entry was compiled with AI assistance and has not yet been reviewed by an ordained pastor.